Thursday, December 31, 2009

M-I-L-E-Y




Yes, I took the girls to see Miley Cyrus when she was in town in November. It was so much fun (thank you Funny Pants) and Funny and Smarty were even able to snag two extra tix at the last minute. "Put my hands up, Playn my song..." We were able to sit extra close to the stage and even wandered backstage for a bit. Good times!

Christmas 2009






Christmas 2009 was wonderful! We celebrated the birth of Jesus in a several BIG ways! I love seeing my children learn more and more each year and understand just what the season means.

Monday, November 2, 2009

H-A-LL-O-W-EE-N 2009


We had a fabulous time planning our Halloween this year!  Sassy Pants decided that she wanted to be Pinkalicious, Cutie Pants was Bob da Bilder, and Sweetie Pants was a Pretty Witch.  (Smarty was playing hockey out of town) 


I had to be very creative with Pinkalicious and I searched for the perfect dress and wondered how I would craft a fake cupcake (you need to know the story- Pinkalicious is a book about a girl who sneaks one more pink cupcake and then turns pink- thus the name...It is Sassy's favorite book and I recently just read it to the entire first grade as I was asked to be the "Friday Friend" and read a book and tell about my job)  and I found the perfect little pink cupcake purse, cupcake earrings, necklace, bracelet and ring.  (I went way overboard and spent waayyyy more than I should have on a Halloween costume) 


We went to the zoo and attended their "G *houls at Gr*assmere" event.  We took a sweet friend of Sassy's with us and "M" spent the night afterwards.  These two are sooo much fun!  They had so much fun and even broke it down on the dance floor to Thriller!


Halloween night, Sweetie and Cutie were with us while Sassy was with her dad.  We had a ball going around our new neighborhood and trick or treating.  I took them around for the first hour, then daddy took them around for another hour and a half.  I would guess by the fact that we were out of candy by 8:30p that we had close to 100-150 spooks come to our house.  We had sooo much fun!



Of course, no Halloween would be complete without our yearly trip to the farm down the road for corn mazing and pumpkin picking.  The rain in the area made most of the punkins moldy though, so we looked and looked, but couldn't find one that wasn't completely gross.  Oh well, tons o fun!

We took photos of the three oldest of the bunch on the tire swing, Smarty's came out sooo good.  He's sooo good-lookin'; just like his daddy!

Super JaJah












If you are ever in trouble, this guy can help- or as he says " Super JaJah to the rescue". 





It is amazing when this Super Hero shows up and how he actually tries to "fly" off of the staircase, or torture the dog in order to "help" him. 



Super JaJah will defend you from "cawy monsthers" with his special "blasser (blaster) all the while counting down 3, 2, 1-




He is a real crime-fighter.  Even when he won't take the time to actually potty in the potty but in his "unnerwear" and I gently scold him, he says "but I Super JaJah mommy, I Super JaJah". 











Apparently, super heroes don't have to take the time to use the potty.  Who knew?



For now, Super JaJah is wearing the same super-hero cape that his daddy wore when he was a young crime-fighter- made by his daddy's meme.
 I have received a special message from the North Pole that Super JaJah has a special blue cape with his name on it that we will receive in a couple of months. 

Wednesday, October 28, 2009

New Blog Beginning

So.... I haven't blogged in forever. I want this blog to be a positive one that details my children's lives so that it can be a digital scrapbook. So, I am starting anew. I can't possibly detail all that has happened since my last blog. We are still ill from the chronic carbon monoxide poisoning from our old house. It is quite depressing actually, but I don't like to talk about it, so I am not going to detail our health problems here. I just ask that all of you pray for healing for me and my family. That being said- I will focus on the POSITIVE> we lived through it, ongoing health problems and all. There are days where our symptoms are just similar to sinus pressure, then there are days where we literally cannot function normally and all we do is just the basics to get through the day. We try our best to push ourselves despite feeling bad/sick to do whatever we can to raise our children and still enjoy activities that all children should enjoy.


This Fall has been super. Breathing fresh air, making fall crafts, teaching Cutie Pants about Fall, enjoying God's beautiful creation with His beautiful colors that He created and just enjoying simplicity. Sassy and Sweetie are playing soccer again this Fall and Smarty is playing hockey once again. Cutie WAS potty trained for about a week, but he regressed and we are working on it once again. We now have a sweet puppy (an Australian Silky- a cross between a Yorkie and Australian Terrier) named MacDuffie- we call him Duffie. He is the best dog. Love him so much!


Sassy loves her new school and first grade so much and has a sweet, sweet friend that we have had over for sleepovers twice now and we have had a blast with them at the zoo for Halloween, dinner, etc...Sassy's report card was perfecto and she is really excelling. She reads on almost a second grade level and we are so proud of her!


Sweetie is doing well in school as well with a great report card and a responsibility award at school! She definitely is our most responsible child. She is our mother hen! She has grown so much! She looks like a fifth grader!

Smarty is so smart, yet like most boys his age (11)- he is a little spacy at times, so his grades could be a little better, but he is sooo smart. He is still a phenomenal goalie and he can carry on a conversation with an adult for hours on end. It is amazing the knowledge that he has.


Cutie has started Mothers' Day Out two times a week and he loves his "coolll". I have sooo many "cutie-isms" that he says. I will start to blog them on another blog post, because I am writing them down so as not to forget. We are sooo close to having him out of pull-ups and I HOPE that we can get it done soon!


Funny Pants is working harder than ever and I am proud, proud wife! He is a wonderful husband and we are about to celebrate our fourth wedding anniversary next week. He has really been helpful around the house as I...



have launched my PR firm and am amazed at the number of clients that have contacted me to help them launch products, promote events and handle press inquiries. I am trying to find that balance that all working mothers try to find. I pray daily that God will lead me in this venture.



We are learning to ride a real big-girl bike, learning to swing a bat at a ball, learning ABC's, playing with all of the neighbor kids (love, love, love the neighbors) and Funny and I try to make time for each other. We recently went to Chateau Elan for our anniversary and Super Nanny stayed with Cutie pants for a few days.



So, stay tuned and follow us to learn more about the Napier Bunch...































Saturday, August 15, 2009

Ballet recital 2009


Sassy Pants had her annual ballet recital in June and she did fabulous! I was a proud mama watching her remember her dance on stage! This year she did ballet and tap and both were cute dances. Our sassy loves all things girly (and that includes soccer too) and I hope that she continues to want to dance! Tap-tap
Another trophy for our collection

Hi mom!


Sunday, May 3, 2009

Time flies...

Time flies. It's true. We have now been in our new house for a month and I am finally able to rest and blog. Whew. we moved on a day of storms, tornadoes, and flooding, so we got everything loaded, but it was about 40 hours later when we were finally finished with the unload. Long story, but we were so glad to be here. It is comfy, cute and we are feeling much better. A week after we moved in, it was Easter. We dyed Easter eggs, had an Easter egg hunt in the backyard, learned about the risen Lord at church and had a fabulous Easter brunch at our fav restaurant... It was a peaceful, wonderful holiday and we are so thankful to Jesus for dying on the cross for our sins. He is risen indeed!







Time flies. My baby girl is 6. Where did the time go?


The following weekend, we had Sassy's 6th birthday party at a wonderful dance studio (where she takes dance) and Ms. Natalie did a great job teaching Sassy's friends, cousins, and little brother a dance to a HSM tune. It was a great time and Sassy had such sweet friends show up to celebrate her big day! I let her wear a special tiara that day. Funny pants bought me that tiara long ago and it stays in Sassy's room as part of her princess room's theme. I have never let her wear it, but promised that on this day, her special 6 year birthday, that she would be able to wear it. This beautiful princess should wear a tiara everyday! She looked absolutely breathtaking (can a mom say that without sounding braggadocious?) and I am forever proud! She is still working on all of the thank you notes, but we've almost got them done. It is a lot for a 6 yo to write that many. She is a blessed, sweet, smart little girl and I am so thankful to be her mother. My heart is full of joy for her and I couldn't be more in love with my sweet "sister queen". When she was two or so I started calling her "sister queen" and I have no idea why. I have called her that ever since (in addition to Sassy pants, etc...) My equally beautiful 95-year old grandmother and sweet auntie Ann made the trip to the party as well- it was super! Thanks to mom and dad for helping us out and to dad (papa) for putting the trampoline together for the kids here at the house. Here are photos from Sassy's big day (Sweetie pants was unable to come and she was missed by all)









Cutie got in on the action. He paid attention and did all of the warm-up exercises. It was hilarious and Sassy was so good and didn't whine a bit about Cutie trying to steal the show.


Tuesday, March 31, 2009

The story of the worst move ever

We are moving. YAY! We move in two days and I am a busy bee packing and cleaning and planning. We DID NOT want to move again. We love the floor plan of this house. It is awesome and we planned on living here until one of our kiddos had to move us into a home. But, sadly- we had to go through the horrible experience of a "sick" house.


Does this house look "sick"?

No, it looks like a wonderful place to live and raise a family. However, here is our story beginning to now...

June 08- we move in and could tell that this house had been for sale for a while and sat vacant. The air was musty and it felt like the house was a "tight" house. Imagine getting into a mason jar and closing the lid. We completely ignored any inclination that we felt bad in this home.

July 08- Funny pants starts getting really dizzy to the point of almost blacking out and it happens frequently. We both suspected blood sugar issues. We now start to worry that he has diabetes. He tests for diabetes and thankfully all is well, but what is making him dizzy/ he is referred to a neurologist. The neurologist tells him that he seems fine and that it could be his vision, stress, etc...makes a follow up appt. I had cold like symptoms off an on with a bad cough and just felt tired. I completely ignored my own health as most moms do when it isn't serious.

August 08- Smarty pants has an episode where he is coughing/barking and has trouble breathing. Funny rushes him to the doctor and he is prescribed pretty hefty meds and an inhaler. He has never had to breathe in an inhaler before. Cutie pants has stomach issues and colds constantly. I start having excessive bruises all over without any cause.

Sept 08- Problem is noticed with Sassy pants so I make an appt with her pediatrician for Oct. Funny pants now is having muscle spasms all over his body constantly and his right leg is very weak. His maternal grandmother died of ALS (Lou Gherig's disease) so we are concerned when we look up these symptoms and learn that these are symptoms of ALS. So, I am completely stressed out/exhausted, worried about Funny Pants and Sassy Pants because what we suspect with both of them is so serious. I start feeling really sick towards the end of the month and I start having "female" issues, yet another stressful concern. Funny's appt with another neurologist is scheduled a few weeks out and we are so nervous. Cutie pants is so laid back during this time and wants me to hold him constantly. I think to myself "wow- he is so different from sassy. She was so active at this age, but he is so still". We start running the heat in Sept. Sassy starts having behavioral problems at school every day. These successive behavioral problems end in Dec.

Oct 08- I go to the doctor with chest pains/ breathing, barking cough, sinus pressure, sore throat, headache- told that it is just sinus/cold... Sassy goes to the doctor and they have to take a blood panel. It takes two nurses, Funny pants and myself to hold her down. It ranks in the top 5 of my most stressful moments of all time. I have constant muscle cramps in my calf muscles for no reason. It is very hard to carry a baby and go up and down stairs and just function in a normal way. I also have developed arthritic symptoms in my hands and feet. I also have regular muscle spasms, but not as bad as Funny pants. Our eyes are red and itchy every day.

Nov 08- I am convinced at this point that this house has a problem. I look up environmental issues and bingo- found that mold can cause several of our problems. Funny finds an independent, non-biased guy to come test our home. He finds penicillium, aspergillus, and chlodosporium (sp) in our air ducts and claims that on a scale of 1-10 the levels are a 7. He recommends a duct cleaning company and we have it remediated. However, the night before remediation (we spent the weekend at a hotel since we didn't want to be in the house once we knew what it was) Sassy starts running a fever of 102-103 with a bad headache but she is so sick for four days. We have the ducts cleaned and we start visiting an allergist. We test positive for allergies to aspergillus mold. We are so hopeful that all will be better. Funny pants goes to the neurologist for a horrible EMG test where they have to probe his muscles with needles. It is a horrible experience and I sat in a chair crying because he was in so much pain. Praise the Lord that he doesn't have ALS. They diagnose his constant (and I mean constant) muscle spasms as benign fasciculation syndrome.

Dec 08- We are still sick. bruises, red eyes, headaches, stomach issues, rashes, muscle spasms, bloody noses, nasal ulcers, cough, tremors, and so much more. I want to move. I cannot stand it any more. We have the environmental guy come back out. He tests and there is no mold in our air ducts and no visible signs of it anywhere else. We test our water- it is fine. What is it? We move some things into our basement and Funny notices a huge pan of water under our heating unit. He calls the HVAC company and on Dec 16, our angel arrives. The HVAC tech (whom we have met several times since the a/c unit was always on the fritz- yes, once again - this home is only a year old) finds that the heater was installed in the opposite way and the good air was pumped to the outside and the combustion and carbon monoxide was filling up the basement and coming into the home. It is fixed and we are so happy to know the cause and think that now we are going to be on the mend. Um, no. We learn that chronic carbon monoxide poisoning is so different from acute poisoning. acute poisoning is more recognized than chronic. We still feel awful. We feel brain damaged and we are. I cannot think of words and cannot remember easy things.

From then until now- we treated ourselves with oxygen therapy, vitamins, organic juicing, brain supplements and still feel bad. We have had atmos energy out twice to re-test b/c we were concerned on how we felt. Shouldn't we feel better now? We have since been told by two environmental companies that the carbon monoxide could be in some of our possessions like couches and soft items and so now we are using special cleaners on the couch, bedding, mattresses and most of the kids stuffed animals will be tossed out unless it is their absolute favorite and we are going to pay BIG bucks to have them cleaned by a company that cleans up after fire damage. The house is now a sick house as the carbon monoxide is most likely in the carpet, walls, etc... One company told us that no one should live here until it is fixed. It is important to note that we feel better when we are out of the environment, but we are still not 100%. Dunno if we ever will be. We don't know what implications this will have on our children. Our three children that have other parents might have been spared from the serious damage as they go back and forth and are at school during the day, but what about cutie pants? Is he okay? It is so sad b/c my sweet baby couldn't tell his mommy that he was feeling bad. He just wanted to cuddle up for comfort all the time.

So, after going through the painful closing of Funny pants' business last year, moving into this home and hoping that we could plant our roots finally and make it a home, this is our painful tale. I know that God has a plan and this is part of it. I am prayerful to never move again after our move on Thursday. I am excited about the new house (in an older established neighborhood with TREES and lots of kids) and making it HOME! Please pray for us during this time and pray for our children who are having to adjust again so soon after moving. Thank you for your prayers.

That is the short-story to our saga. There are so many symptoms, incidents that I had to omit because of time, but I think that you get the point.

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

The last few weeks...without photos.

No laptop means less time on the computer which overall is a good thing! However, I am regretful that I haven't posted a blog, photos, etc... in forever. We haven't been feeling that well. The hbot (we call it the bot) helps so much to clear our heads and eliminate the brain-fog from the CO poisoning, but we feel that there are still allergens in our home now. The past 10 months have been brutal on our health since moving into this house. We look forward to the day where we can feel good, have energy again, and be completely healed from this.

Here is what we have been up to:

We had the snow day... I have great pics, that I , um, haven't edited due to time and no laptop (this regular monitor is great- but immobile and Todd is always on his laptop) so take my word for it- snow day was great.

We had my bday. Nuff said. However, for my bday, funny pants bought me tix to see Britney Spears. Yes, I think that she is a fab dancer and I have always rooted for her. Even though she definitely lip-synchs- she is awesome. So, we ended up going to see her concert in Miami. It was so fun! We stayed in Coconut Grove at the Mayfield and we were 6 feet away from her at times! So wonderful! The performance was WAAAAYYYY risque and I was thankfully spared the worst part as I was in the ladies room, but she was on point and did a great job! It was a nice getaway and thanks to the grandparents for stepping in last minute! I do have great photos, but haven't downloaded them from my phone or flip-like digital recorder.

We made a few crafts, namely a leprechaun trap for Sassy's class and it is superb! once again, no photos.

We had hockey playoffs for Smarty and his team won their last game in the tourney, so they finished in a respectable place.

Soccer has started. But, only one game has been played due to weather- spring time...

Went to a preds game last week and they won against the Rangers- that was fun. How do we ALWAYS see someone we know in that big arena, too weird.

We have a VERY busy few weeks coming up- more on that another time, but exciting changes are coming our way and hopefully some relief. We have Funny's bday in two days, then Sassy's ballet party in a couple of weeks.

I am looking for laptops and taking my time....

Saturday, February 28, 2009

hockey, hbot, and her majesty

soooo much hockey this week!

2 Hockey games- yay! for smarty - he did great
I gave xbox NHL 09 to funny- he and smarty have been playing like mad
Funny and smarty are at a hockey game right now- go preds

sassy just put a tiara on my head- i am now queen mommy and i intend on wearing it as long as i can tonight.


we got an hbot- short for hyper-baric oxygen therapy for our chronic co issue- we will be spending many hours to come in this submarine looking thingie

more to come... my laptop is kaput. must decide to fix said dell or move on to new one... hmmm....

Sunday, February 22, 2009

Real Relationships....More on Authenticity

I feel the need to clarify. I have awesome relationships with a number of people- not just those that I go to church with :)- I have great friends from "home" J, B, L, M, N and we are honest, open, and jokingly kid each other all the time. We have a great bond and don't act like we are something we're not. I love that. J has also gotten me involved with a number of other moms in a MOPS group and from the moment of hello- I knew that I was going to really need and enjoy my time with these moms. The very first meeting that I attended was open- to say the least. Need it, love it and wait for it. So, I hope that there are no hurt feelings. Without the above and before mentioned gals, I would be very sad.

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Authenticity

We are studying about authentic relationships in our church small group. Within the last 4 years of my life, I have had to come clean and be transparent in my relationships. No longer can I hide under a "mask" that I created that everything was peachy-keen. I grew up in a small town. Many people from that same small town read this blog. Some because they know and love me; some maybe not so much. I don't really blame the latter group, I wasn't always the super-sweet girl that I am now (just kidding- I'm not that arrogant). Growing up, I was raised in the church by wonderful parents. We went to church every Sunday, sat in the second row, I was involved in youth group, etc... but I didn't truly have a daily walk with God. I searched for authenticity within myself. I partied (moderately- this girl has always been drug-free!!!) in high school, in college, in my early twenties, and I renewed my relationship with God at about age 25. However, I didn't truly know an AUTHENTIC relationship with God (where I wasn't trying to control the outcome of prayer) until a few years later when I quit trying to control my life and let Him do what He does best.

Then, we found ourselves in another storm this past year. I won't go into the particulars as this isn't the forum, but God brought us back from the brink of disaster. God knows the true you. I feel that this is a struggle for so many young moms today. We are supposed to be able to handle it all, right? We need to do everything that women/wives/mothers are called to do (yes, Ms. Independent, I said "called"- read Proverbs 31) and keep up with the societal expectations of adorable children in adorable clothes, photos sessions, blogs, scrapbooking, room mom, over-the-top birthday parties, working out (hello, I wanna) and keeping it all together, all the time. Well, I tell ya- I worked my tail off caring for my hubby, young children, discipling said unruly children, cleaning and cleaning and cleaning this house with no end in sight (same with the laundry- not complaining, just sayin...) and I don't have it all together. I was exasperated by the time I got two of our children, myself, my book, Bible, and brownies to small group last night(Hubby had an event). But, I could show that to my dear friends in small group as there are not many pretenses or facades that we put up in our group. I love that about our church. We aren't comparing coa ch diaper bags and bragging about our latest and greatest adventures (yes, I covet their iphones & imacs- i want one- can't help it, but I am in a contract with another carrier and am too frugal to pay the disconnect fee...) I honestly don't believe that there is any "catty" behavior in our church. I don't see jealousy or comparison- I see authenticity. The AUTHENTIC you that you probably don't want the world to see as you feel that it is the ugly side of the truth. No one is perfect. If someone has one area of their life together- I can betcha that they feel that another side is completely falling apart. So, I ask dear blog readers (all 44 or so of you)- can we be authentic?

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Choo- Choo, Cutie is Two!

Cutie is TWO! T* homas the t * rain was the theme as our Cutie Pants is obsessed! I love planning parties! The wind was whipping last weekend, so most of my outdoor balloons ran away before this outdoor photo. We had "Cutie" (real name omitted) Station, Gift Station, Color Station, Chugga Chugga Cheese, Choo-Choo Chips, Gordon Grapes, Mavis Mix, Percy Pizza Rolls, Cranky Cookies (all kiddo food) and more... Cutie had a blast and I am so thankful for our guests! Not pictured due to lack of photos are meme and boppa, papa, aunt ann (whom I am so happy got to attend!!!), Uncle Steve. Thank you all for coming!





Sweet daddy helped take photos all day and helped with the set-up the night before. Thanks Funny!


Cutie wanted nothing to do with this cake at the time of the above photo. I love how mom and I are trying to get him excited- look at our faces!

Mom, Aunt Jen and Me!



Color Station




Cutie is paci-free and on his way to three..... now- what about those diapers??? Potty time!